How The Pick Up Community Almost Ruined My Game

I began to see everything in terms of game. People weren't people anymore, they were targets, obstacles, wingmen, AMOGs, etc. It was so mind altering, it swept me up and swallowed me whole.

The over focus HURT more than it helped. I was obsessed with pick-up and it was far from attractive. Learning social dynamics was only ONE ASPECT of what I needed, I was viewing it as the world.

Armed with my routines, tactics, and strategies, I did get some results. Girls laughed, were attracted, made-out with me, even went home with me...but I was far from reaching my true potential. I was still the awkward, nerdy guy that needed community in the first place, and I knew it. I wondered if my inside view of myself was ever going to change.

Then I got insight that changed my way of thinking.

* When you cultivate a character with integrity and personality, women will be attracted to you because that is the substance of true value. Its not a creepy, scripted, overly cocky, or outright "weird" pick-up artist.

* I understand the importance that voice is power, and when you own your voice you own your power. Your voice is a powerful tool and simple strategies like removing "uh" and "um" and replacing those with a deep breath will make all the difference in the world.

* Peacocking can make you feel awkward if done over the top. Using atactic as simple as "color pop" you can transform your outfit and get the same effect of peacocking. It is as simple as choosing a vibrant color and combining it with your outfit.

After I started to incorporate these methods into my game, there was a change, a relief, that came over me. I was no longer trying so hard, and my mind became at ease. Try these tactics out, and be confident knowing your game is on its way to the next level.

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Neil Strauss wrote a book that changed the world of pick up, The Game. You can check out his website of free pick up artist videos to assist you maximize your success with women.

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